Friday Night Drinks POW outfits are for going out on a date, getting drinks, seeing a band play, going to dinner and a movie—something where you want to look good and may wear some sexier clothes and statement pieces. These are fun clothes!

Beyond Star POW: Fiery Femme Fatale Date Night: For a bold, eye-catching femme Fatale look, combine red and with curve hugging black.

Outfit: Beyond Tee and Fiery Skirt from cabi Fall 2016. The shoes are from Target last year, I think. The L&M convertible reversible black and gold handbag or clutch, Midas Leaf Collar from BaubleBar, and Faux gold pearl earrings bough years ago.

Posted: December 16, 2016

For femme Fatale styling tips, strut over to the post!

Beachy Warrior Goddess Date Night: Mix tough with feminine and goddess accessories for a beachy warrior goddess date night look

Outfit: Pleated Star Skirt from Canvas by Lands’ End, Muscle Tee from cabi Spring 2016, Yet Another by AerosolesMermaid Earrings & Athena Necklace by Kelly Annie, along with the Sandstone cuff & Sandstone ring custom order with Solid Treasures.

Posted: October 07, 2016

For more Goddess style and beach pictures, see the full post!


Destructed White POW: Bare Shoulders, Strong & Sexy Date Night: For an ageless, sexy date night look, bare your shoulders (but feel free to keep everything else covered).

Outfit: Destructed Slim Boyfriend jeans from cabi Spring 2016, jeweled, banded collar halter top from a local Fab’rik, shoes are from Target several years ago, an old clutch and I do not remember where I got it, older Charming Charlie earrings,and an old bracelet and I have no idea where I got it.

Posted: August 12, 2016

Check out the post for alternatives, tips, and more.

Pretty Pockets and Boho Layers Date Night: For an easy date night outfit for summer theater or other dates where temperature may change, choose a pretty sundress & a denim shirt as a fun, curve-enhancing layer.

Outfit: Bardot Shirt, Fresco Dress, and the bracelet & necklace are the transforming Villa Necklace, all from cabi Spring 2016. Unisa Eavvi Sandal sold at DSW. Rose Quartz Dangle Earrings by Shine Chaser Jewelry. Learn more in the post!

June 10, 2016


Simple Sundress Date Night: Go simple and easy and knock your date’s socks off!

Outfit: Margherita Dress, Dolce Charm Earrings, and Villa Necklace from cabi Spring 2016. Unisa Eavvi Sandal sold at DSW. Want me? Read the full post!

Posted: May 20, 2016

Sexy & Comfortable Date Night: Be the sexiest and most comfortable woman in the room by wearing a curve-hugging, flaw-hiding all-black outfit in a soft, comfortable fabric.

Outfit: Run Around Skirt and Gathered Tee from cabi Spring 2106. Sold out Casablanca Necklace from Stella & Dot. Vintage Crystal Studs Earrings from Stella & Dot. Stamped Ring by Solid Treasures. Shoes from Target last year. Discover more in the post.

Posted: April 29, 2016


Touch of the 70s Date Night: Reference your favorite style decade to add fun, glamour, and sex appeal to your night out looks.

Outfit: Plume Top from cabi Spring 2016.  Frolic Skirt from cabi Fall 2014 and not available.  Audrey Brooke Glenda Pump from DSW. Yellow Jade and Hematite Chain Earrings and the Faceted Glass Bead Bar Silver Chain Necklace both by Shine Chaser Jewelry. Cubist Bracelet by Bauble Bar and some older pieces. Check out the post for more details and bracelet & skirt alternatives.

April 08, 2016

Simple Affairs Date Night: For a simple date night look, take your wardrobe essential black pants, add a romantic & sexy blouse along with a few accessories and you are good to go!

Outfit: Go-To Trouser and the Vita Blouse from cabi Spring 2016. Ice Infinity Pendant & Pisces Strands from Bauble Bar. Old clutch from Coldwater CreekCherry Quartz Gemstone Earrings from Shine Chaser Jewelry. Ivie Bangle by Stella & Dot purchased in 2014. I think the shoes are very old Aerosoles. 

March 25, 2016


Date Night Aflutter: Mix a cardigan with flirty and romantic pieces to set hearts aflutter.

Outfit: Michelle CardiganSimple CamiIsabel SkirtDolce Charm EarringsLocket Necklace (part used for bracelet, rest for necklace) all cabi 2016 and the Unisa Eavvi Sandal sold at DSW. Discover more in the post.

March 11, 2016

Date Night Flannel Heat: Don’t rule out a flannel shirt for a sexy date outfit—just add other pieces with plenty of sex appeal.

Outfit: Slightly Fitted Scotch Plaid Shirt in Deep Evergreen Tartan, Target shoes from last year, Twilight Fringe NecklaceVintage Crystal Studs earrings. The mesh-trimmed cami, faux leather pencil skirt, and belt are all seasons past cabi and not available (alternatives are listed in the post). Find out how to turn up the heat in flannel or denim in the post!

February 26, 2016


Spicy Sweet Friday Night Drinks: Mix romantic pretty items with ripped denim and black leather for a look that is both sugar and spice and certainly nice.

Outfit: Fall cabi Love Blouse,  Dark Destruction Slim Boyfriend Jeans, and Twist Scarf, with an old, beloved pair of A2s from Aerosoles and Rose Quartz Dangle Earrings. Discover more on the post. 

February 05, 2016

Tonal Friday Night Drinks: Mix casual pants with dressier tops in the same tone for a put-together and fun date night outfit.

Outfit: Fall 2015 cabi Media Jacket, vintage cabi sleeves black blouse, and Celadon Cargos. old slouch boots. The necklace is the Beaded Amazonite Necklace by Solid Treasures.

January 22, 2016